What are the Rules to dating?

Some of the expectations of what girls want guys to be like, come from the mass media. For example, "Jacob" the wolf-man from the twilight series, and "Ryan Sheckler" the professional skateboarder. Girls seem to be disillusioned that a guy has to be perfect for them to like the guy or even give him a chance. Pressure is put on guys who do not look a certain way, for instance, guys who aren't muscular, have a six pack, and who are balding, don't really have a chance. It always seems like the girls are searching for the best looking, not personality. It is the same for some of us guys. We go after the pretty girls, but if you are average, and have a good personality, most likely we would date you.


Some girls get the impression that if the guy pays for everything (lunch, movies, etc.) the guy wants to be reimbursed somehow. The one thing that we don’t realize is that a dying race called chivalry, treating women with respect, is almost no more. Now-a-days guys can be filthy saying, “I’m gunna tap that!” or “I be spitting game!” (Roberto) or “Mackin’” (Another Roberto), but all it is, is a guy looking for a “good time”, not a girlfriend or potential wife.

Some of the rules I have heard of in the girl community (my sisters), is that a girl cannot date a friend’s ex-boyfriend. Unless the two weren’t “going steady” (Mr. Sutherland), that entire rule really is a silly girl code, also known for secrets and gossip. Even though the times have changed, now it is known as “going out” and dating for months even years before moving onto new people, and it creates a lot of stress in someone’s life. That is why there are so many divorces, because people went “steady” for so long they realized after they were married with children the other wasn’t “the one”.